I have a confession...I dislike my husband being ambushed.Are you telling me that you can't inform my husband what you wish to meet with him about?
Why!!! What the hell is wrong with you that you can't give someone the simple courtesy of telling them why you need to meet so that they can prepare for your meetings? If you allowed a person this you would find them better prepared for the meeting and they would be by far, less stressed out.
Would you like it if your boss said, "I really need to meet with you on Friday at 9 sharp," and then left it at that? No, I didn't think so. So why in the world would you pull that on someone else? You make me sick to my stomach!
